{"id":7105,"date":"2025-05-12T11:33:58","date_gmt":"2025-05-12T11:33:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ksenijamijatovic.com\/?p=7105"},"modified":"2025-05-12T11:34:33","modified_gmt":"2025-05-12T11:34:33","slug":"kako-postaviti-granice-a-da-ne-izgubis-sebe","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ksenijamijatovic.com\/sr\/2025\/05\/12\/kako-postaviti-granice-a-da-ne-izgubis-sebe\/","title":{"rendered":"Kako postaviti granice a da ne izgubi\u0161 sebe"},"content":{"rendered":"<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"7105\" class=\"elementor elementor-7105\">\n\t\t\t\t        <section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-3e092129 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default ct-header-fixed-none ct-column-none ct-row-scroll-none ct-row-gradient--none ct-row-container--default\" data-id=\"3e092129\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n            \n                        <div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-extended\">\n                    <div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-5a0ec3fd ct-column-none col-offset-none\" data-id=\"5a0ec3fd\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n        <div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n                    \n        \t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-67278fed elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"67278fed\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h4>Tema granica u\u0161la je na velika vrata u sve sfere rada sa ljudima, i to naj\u010de\u0161\u0107e sa receptima kako na najbolji na\u010din re\u0107i \u201eNE\u201c drugima, kako za\u0161titi sebe i svoj psiholo\u0161ki, emotivni prostor pa i \u017eivot.\u00a0 Me\u0111utim, granice su mnogo vi\u0161e od toga.<\/h4>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-25dbf0a elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"25dbf0a\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Granice govore o tome KO STE VI, koje su va\u0161e \u017eivotne vrednosti, misli, va\u0161e \u017eudnje i potrebe.\u00a0 A gde su \u017eudnje, vrednosti, potrebe, tu su i emocije.<br \/>Dalje, emocije su neophodne da biste \u017eiveli svoj \u017eivot na najbolji mogu\u0107i na\u010din.\u00a0 Kako \u0107emo znati gde je na\u0161a granica sa drugima, ako ne znamo gde su granice unutar nas samih?<br \/>Te\u0161ko je do\u0107i do sebe dok slu\u0161amo sve druge oko nas dok govore kako treba \u017eiveti i \u0161ta raditi, a \u010dak i kada ne govore, glasovi na\u0161ih mama, baka, tata, deka, ma svih onih koje smo voleli, duboko su u nama.<br \/>Tu su i o\u010dekivanja koja smo sebi nametnuli kroz sve na\u0161e uloge: \u201eda li sam dobra majka ako uradim to i to?\u201c (ovo je tako\u0111e postavljanje granica), \u201e da li sam dobra \u0107erka\/sin ako uradim ili ne uraadim to \u0161to se tra\u017ei od mene\u201c?, \u201e ako sada odbijem da budem od pomo\u0107i, da li \u0107u izgubiti ovo prijateljstvo?\u201d.<\/p><p>Ovo su samo neka od pitanja koje mi ljudi postavljaju u radu sa granicama.<br \/>Dakle, nije lako postavljati granice ali kada to nau\u010dimo sve postaje lak\u0161e i lep\u0161e.\u00a0 Za sve \u0161to \u017eelimo da dobijemo, moramo ne\u0161to i da \u201edamo\u201c zar ne?\u00a0 Nekada i treba da pustimo da neki odnosi odu\u2026<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t            <\/div>\n        <\/div>\n                    <\/div>\n        <\/section>\n        \t\t<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Tema granica u\u0161la je na velika vrata u sve sfere rada sa ljudima, i to naj\u010de\u0161\u0107e sa receptima kako na najbolji na\u010din re\u0107i \u201eNE\u201c drugima, kako za\u0161titi sebe i svoj psiholo\u0161ki, emotivni prostor pa i \u017eivot.\u00a0 Me\u0111utim, granice su mnogo vi\u0161e od toga. Granice govore o tome KO STE VI, koje su va\u0161e \u017eivotne vrednosti, [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":7100,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[39],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7105","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-granice"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ksenijamijatovic.com\/sr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7105","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ksenijamijatovic.com\/sr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ksenijamijatovic.com\/sr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ksenijamijatovic.com\/sr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ksenijamijatovic.com\/sr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7105"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/ksenijamijatovic.com\/sr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7105\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7109,"href":"https:\/\/ksenijamijatovic.com\/sr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7105\/revisions\/7109"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ksenijamijatovic.com\/sr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/7100"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ksenijamijatovic.com\/sr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7105"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ksenijamijatovic.com\/sr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7105"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ksenijamijatovic.com\/sr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7105"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}